Lion or Lamb?

Do you roar through life to get things accomplished or do you take a more serene approach?  Both can be pretty effective but in oh so different ways.

I’ve seen a lot of people that only know how to be like a lion.  They accomplish an awful lot.  Through pure force and determination, they set a goal and then run it down.  We really owe a lot to theses lions. And the truth is we all have to be the lion occasionally.  But boy, can that ever be exhausting.  Not only can it be exhausting to summon up our own inner lion, it can be exhausting just to watch others fully embrace their carnivorous inner beast.

However, I think the lamb in each of us is severely undervalued.  Not everything always has to be a fight.  Sometimes saying less says so much more.  Sometimes extending grace to others can be the most powerful thing you can do.  Sometimes it’s best just to let things lie.

There’s been a lot of lions and a lot of lambs that had great impacts on the course of human history. The best impacts usually come from individuals that know how to best draw on both animals.  And I fully believe the lamb in each of us can accomplish immeasurably more than the lion.

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Judgmental Danger

Several weeks back I had a post asking what keeps people away from Christianity. Enough thoughts came out of the discussions around that post to keep this blog going for years to come. A lot of people pointed to the judgmental nature of people inside the church as a primary reason for staying away from not just the church, but Christianity altogether. They claim the church is full of nothing but hypocrites.

The Bible gives us a set of laws to follow. Most Christians do their best to follow those laws. Then, after trying to follow those laws, many begin to feel like they have the whole Christianity thing figured out. Once they have it “figured out”, it becomes awful easy to see how everyone else is messing up. And, other people’s mess ups always seem more destructive than our own mess ups.

But here’s the thing, those laws are not meant to be a condition of salvation. There’s only one condition that salvation depends upon. That’s the belief that Jesus is who he said he was. “For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life” (John 3:16). It doesn’t say believes and follows all the rules. It doesn’t say believes and never cusses. It doesn’t say believes and never has a beer. It simply says believes. So the laws are simply there for our benefit. We are given the gift of the law so that we will know how to have a better life. It would parallel the reasons why we place rules upon our children. We give our children rules for their own benefit and when they break those rules, we don’t love them any less. God’s law is the same. It is not there to keep us out of heaven or to be used to judge others.

And here’s one more “but here’s the thing” thought. The Bible also says “for all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God” (Romans 3:23). Every single one of us has and does sin. None of us are capable of perfectly keeping the law. So yeah, those within the church that look down their noses at the sins of others are certainly hypocrites. But I prefer to consider them what we all are. We’re all sinners. Their sins just happen to be a little different than my sins. Again, we are all sinners. And there are not enough rules to follow or good deeds to do to fix that. The only thing that fixes that is the belief that Jesus paid the price for all of our sins.

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Victor Hugo Quotes

“The greatest happiness of life is the conviction that we are loved — loved for ourselves, or rather, loved in spite of ourselves.”

 “It is by suffering that human beings become angels.”

“Hope is the word which God has written on the brow of every man.”

“Have no fear of robbers or murderers. They are external dangers, petty dangers. We should fear ourselves. Prejudices are the real robbers; vices the real murders. The great dangers are within us. Why worry about what threatens our heads or purses? Let us think instead of what threatens our souls.”

“What a grand thing, to be loved! What a grander thing still, to love!”

“A faith is a necessity to a man. Woe to him who believes in nothing.”

“Life’s greatest happiness is to be convinced we are loved.”

 “Be like the bird that, pausing in her flight awhile on boughs too slight, feels them give way beneath her, and yet sings, knowing that she hath wings.”

“Sorrow is a fruit. God does not make it grow on limbs too weak to bear it.”

“It is nothing to die. It is frightful not to live.”

“Strong and bitter words indicate a weak cause.”

“Laughter is the sun that drives winter from the human face.”

“The quantity of civilization is measured by the quality of imagination.”

 “There is always more misery among the lower classes than there is humanity in the higher.”

 “There are thoughts which are prayers. There are moments when, whatever the posture of the body, the soul is on its knees.”

“The human soul has still greater need of the ideal than of the real. It is by the real that we exist; it is by the ideal that we live.”

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10 Reasons Why I Dislike Andy Stanley

Andy Stanley is the senior pastor for North Point Ministries near Atlanta, GA.

  1. He communicates a message in a style that is extremely engaging.
  2. He describes biblical stories with such simplicity that even my kids get it. 
  3. He doesn’t preach from a holier than thou attitude.  He actually explains his faults.  This has the annoying feature of forcing the listener to be able to relate to him. 
  4. He merges forward thinking business models with Biblical principles.  This results in a pretty amazing organization of churches. 
  5. You can get his sermon podcasts from North Point Community Church and Buckhead Community Church on iTunes for free every week.  
  6. His churches are focused on being relevant in the modern world…which means they are not what a lot of people typically think of when they think of church. 
  7. He leads a movement that has a wonderful focus on creating community.  Despite having a congregation that is by any account huge, they have wonderful processes for getting individuals involved in small group settings. 
  8. His leadership podcast is applicable for not just in the church world but also the rest of the world. 
  9. I feel challenged every time I hear his messages.  They’re often funny to hear.  They’re sometimes tough to implement.  And they’re always relevant to my own life. 
  10. Even though I’ve never met the guy, he has changed my life.
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Dave’s Snack Shack

So I love the Rail Trail in Morgantown, WV.  Most people assume that the rail trail system runs itself.  Well, as it turns out there’s a non-profit organization that makes the trail what it is today.  The Mon River Trail Conservancy manages 48 miles of trails in the greater Morgantown area. This past weekend, they hosted their 11th Decker’s Creek Half Marathon.  Approximately 600 runners participated in the uniquely all downhill event.  It’s cool to see the individuals that finish with crazy fast times.  It’s even cooler to see the oldest participant, a 70 year old man, finish with a time of 1 hour and 58 minutes.

But the half marathon is just one of the great things about the trail system.  There are really too many great things to list in one simple blog post.  So, I’ll just focus on my favorite.  Dave’s Snack Shack is located about halfway between Morgantown and Masontown along the Decker’s Creek Trail section.  The Snack Shack is a great destination and/or break spot.  There’s plenty of ice-cream for kids of all ages.

The best thing about the shack is Dave.  He’s been a fixture along that trail for 12 years.  He sits and rocks while waiting for the next passerby to stop and chat.  He certainly isn’t becoming a wealthy man by selling $1.00 ice cream treats and $1.25 Gatorades.  I’d venture to guess he struggles just to make his small business break even.  He is however, spreading plenty of smiles.  And that’s the real treat at Dave’s Snack Shack.

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Success or Significance

Are you chasing success or significance?

For the first half of my life, I bought fully into the typical things we are told that make one successful.  Get that promotion, make more money, buy that car, build that big house, and continually compare yourself to those around you are just a couple of the messages that are thrown down our throat.  And usually, we don’t even realize we are eagerly eating all that garbage.

Now, don’t get me wrong, there’s nothing wrong with having any or even all of that stuff.  But trying to earn happiness or gaining your whole identity through a process like this is certainly one way to not be happy and to suffer pretty low self esteem.  Because, someone else is always going to make more money, have a bigger house, drive a nicer car, and apparently have a “better” life than you.  At every level of society, it never ends and I suspect it all leads to the same emptiness.

I think there’s a better way.  Instead of chasing success as defined by our TV sets, why not shoot for something different?  Why not try to positively impact as many people as you can every day of your life?  I think by focusing on three simple things we can really help others.  And ironically, by helping others, we ultimately help ourselves.  Love, grace, and forgiveness are tons better than that house, car, and income.  And these items lead to something so much more rewarding than success.  These items lead to significance.

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Is the Bible Believable?

A lot of people think there are tons of contradictions in the Bible.  Others struggle with an historical interpretation of the Bible.  Even more can’t accept the Bible because they refuse to believe in miracles.

 I’d love to read what some of you think.  Please leave a comment on the blog page.

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People Are the Problem

So I had a lot of comments on the post I had asking “what keeps people away from Christianity?”  Thanks to all those who left an answer.  I actually learned a lot.

After reading the comments over and over for what seemed like an eternity, I spotted a couple themes.  The largest and most alarming theme was the damage the church has done to keep people away.  There were only a couple posts concerning large theological debates.  Most people identified church issues as the reason most people do not embrace Christianity.  More specifically, most people identified people within the church as the primary reason people do not embrace Christianity. 

That’s just sad.  This idea that being a Christian is based on our ability to obey the Christianity rules leads to so many problems.  Some people think they are better at following the rules than others, so they look down their nose at the others.  Some people think that certain rules have more value than others.  Some people think that Christianity’s only purpose is to use the political system to enforce rules.  All of it pushes many people away from truly understanding their faith.  I call rubbish on all of it!

Christianity is about what Jesus did.  Being a Christian is simply believing in what Jesus did.  Now I won’t ever pretend that simply believing is easy…and that’s certainly a topic for another post.  However, if people are your personal problem to fully embracing Christianity, I’d encourage you to truly educate yourself on the Gospel message.  I think you’ll be amazed at how different that message is when compared to what many people think that message is.

And if you are staying away from church because of the people inside a specific church, find a new church.  Churches all have different personalities.  Just remember, people are people no matter where you go.  And just because some people show up in church on an occasional Sunday and call themselves Christians certainly doesn’t mean they leave all their bad traits at home on Saturday.

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Catch 22 Quotes

He had decided to live forever or die in the attempt, and his only mission each time he went up was to come down alive.

History did not demand Yossarian’s premature demise, justice could be satisfied without it, progress did not hinge upon it, victory did not depend on it. That men would die was a matter of necessity; which men would die, though, was a matter of circumstance, and Yossarian was willing to be the victim of anything but circumstance. But that was war.

The case against Clevinger was open and shut. The only thing missing was something to charge him with.

You know, that might be the answer – to act boastfully about something we ought to be ashamed of. That’s a trick that never seems to fail.

You have no respect for excessive authority or obsolete traditions. You’re dangerous and depraved, and you ought to be taken outside and shot!

That’s the way things go when you elevate mediocre people to positions of authority.

Morale was deteriorating and it was all Yossarian’s fault. The country was in peril; he was jeopardizing his traditional rights of freedom and independence by daring to exercise them.

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Busy, Busy, Busy!!!

I have been busy lately; almost overwhelmingly busy.  It seems there are a lot of things I need to get done and it all needs done by yesterday at the very latest.  Well needless to say, I didn’t get a lot of those things done yesterday, I’m not going to get some of those things done today, and I probably won’t get a couple of those things done tomorrow.

I recently heard a message given by Jeff Henderson at North Point Community Church concerning rest (if you click on the link  be sure to pick “Part 4″ to see this specific message) .  He mentions many things, but one statement really stuck with me.  Towards the end he states that sometimes the most spiritual thing you can do is take a nap.  Now that’s a religious guideline I can completely buy into. 

I really related to this message because I find myself falling into a lot of the pitfalls Jeff mentions.  But what I also do is spread so thin amongst so many things that I end up not doing any of those things all that effectively.  At the end of the day, if I were to simply focus on doing just a few things the best that I could, the people I’m trying to help would be better, my family would be better, and I would be better.

The trick is to have the wisdom to know what to focus on and then to have the courage to say no to all the other stuff.

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